It can be difficult to plan for the future when you are focusing on living in the present. But giving thought to what lies ahead can help you live your best life now and provide you, and your family members, with peace of mind going forward.
As your ALS progresses, you will be faced with making many decisions that have a direct bearing on your quality of life. Knowing your options for managing your symptoms in advance and having time to consider the pros and cons of each course of action can help you (or your family members) avoid being put on the spot and forced to make a difficult decision in the midst of a crisis.
Although it can be upsetting to think about declining abilities and the inevitable outcome of the disease, anticipating future challenges paves the way for handling them in a way that reflects what is most important to you. A good way to begin the process of planning your future care is to think about how you define a good quality of life. For example, you may want to consider:
Thinking about the care you want to receive in advance has many benefits for you, and for your family members. Care planning:
Advance directives are legal documents that convey how you want to be cared for if you’re unable to make medical decisions or express your wishes. There are three important types of advance directives:
You can write your own advance directives or get help from an attorney. Experts recommend discussing your advance directives with your doctor, who can fully explain the implications of accepting or rejecting various forms of medical care. Advance directives are legally binding once they’ve been signed and witnessed. They remain in effect unless you prepare new ones. A directive prepared in one state may not be valid in another state, so consider preparing one for each state where you spend a lot of time.
It can be difficult to think about the care you want to receive in the future and at the end of your life. But making no decision with regard to the future is, in fact, making a decision—the decision to put your family members in the difficult position of guessing what you would want. Careful consideration can help you, and your family members, be at peace with the decisions that are made, now and in the future.
Financial planning soon after diagnosis can help you afford your expenses now, as well as help to ensure your family’s future financial security. Here are some financial planning steps you should take right away:
Regardless of your money situation, you and your family should know about a process called estate planning. Estate planning helps ensure that upon your death, your assets go to the people and places you choose. Your assets may include checking and savings accounts, stocks, bonds, your home, and other possessions. As part of the estate planning process, you should:
Planning for the future can be difficult, even under the best of circumstances. But by thinking and talking about the future now, you can make the tough journey that lies ahead a little bit easier for both yourself and your loved ones.
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